I met a guy about 3 years ago. He chatted me up and asked me to date him but I refused but he kept on asking me. About 2 months ago I finally accepted to date him. We have become very close because we live in the same neighbourhood.
I must confess that he is a very nice guy as he gives me money and buys me gifts. I can say that he is so caring and loving, only that from the very first day I said yes he has been disturbing me to sleep with him of which I am not yet ready because I am still a virgin.
Recently he has been threatening to quit the relationship if I don’t sleep with him. He even gave me a week to decide to sleep with him because he can no longer bear wasting his money on me when I don’t give him what he wants. In fact he almost forced me to sleep with him in his house last week when I went to see him, but I managed to escape and ran away from him.
Now I need help because I am not ready to do what he wants although I love him so much because he is caring and provides everything that I want. How do I handle this because I am still a virgin. Should I sleep with him just because he gives me money?