My Boyfriend Denied his Pregnancy but Now He Wants me Back

dt2 - CopyMy boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now. He is 30 and I am 24. He is in final year but I’ve not been able to gain admission into the University yet. When we started dating it was just for fun. Last year we decided to make it serious and we both got introduced to both our families. I was working so i don’t ask him for anything because he is a student.

Early this year i found out that he was begging his ex to get back together. I confronted him about it, he apologized and promised never to do it again. But anytime i check his timeline, he is still begging her.

At one point I found out that I was pregnant and we decided to abort it. I tried using drugs but it didn’t work, i told him to give me money 4 D & C because i was broke then. I told him that if it gets to 4months, I’m keeping it because it will be too risky.

All this while he was still begging his ex. Eventually I decided to break up with him, that’s when he gave me the shock of my life that he is not responsible for the pregnancy. My mum got involved, we told his elder brother; he accepted it but said we will go for a DNA test & i agreed to it.

The pregnancy is now 6months, I’ve been taking care of it myself, my parents have been very supportive. He doesn’t want his mum to know yet because it will affect his schooling; my parents agreed.

Now he wants us to get back together. I still love him, but it seems that he has reconciled with his ex and I can tell that they are probably getting involved with each other but my mum wants me to be with him because of the pregnancy. Now I am so confused. Should I go back to him or not?

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Nomsa
Nomsa

Be with the father of your baby please, av been through this and I know how difficult it is to raise a kid without the father around.

beric
beric

Oh the guy is untruth full so found anyone who will be honest and supportive . like me if want from sweden

Lee
Lee

Dont think u must take him back he wil stil go bck to his ex they always do

rose
rose

am so sorry for dat,bt forgiving hin and going back with him is the best thing to do in yo situation coz every child needs both parents around pliiiiiiiiz

MAGDALENE
MAGDALENE

PLEASE MY DEAR GO BACK TO HIM… I’M PASSING THROUGH THIS HELL(EXACTLY) MY OWN IS THAT HE DON’T EVEN CARE TO KNOW HOW I’M DOING NO MEDICATION NO GOOD FOOD… AND MY BABY IS 5 MONTHS + NOW, SO I THINK YOU SHOULD GO BACK TO HIM BECAUSE YOU NEED HIS LOVE N CARE.

Lerato
Lerato

You need to realise that its the child’s life and your happiness your putting at stake focus rather on your baby and getting yourself back into school, you get another chance at true love in Varsity

Nancy
Nancy

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