My Boyfriend Wants His Ex Girlfriend to Move in and Live With Us
I am a girl of 25yrs, I have a boy friend whom I met when he had a fight and broke up with his previous girl friend. Due to the love we had for each other we moved in together and things were going on fine.
We now stay abroad and still live together. Recently he told me that this his ex had just travelled to the same country where we now live and she has an accommodation problem and needs his help and that he wants to help her by letting her stay with us for the mean time.
Very reluctantly and after much persuasion from him I agreed but since the ex moved in with us things have been a bit tense and she has been acting strange but my guy told me that I should not worry because he doesn’t have any feelings for her anymore
My guy claims that he just wants to help because this is not our country and that no one knows tomorrow but I don’t feel comfortable staying with her in the same house. I am confused right now and I don’t know what to do pls I need ur advice, thanks.
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Seriously speaking I don’t know y some people still keep in touch with their ex, We all know that temptation will come in. My dear do u know how long she will b staying? Don’t she have any other friends that she can seek their helps? Why your guy? I believe your guy don’t respect u, if not he would have asked for your opinion, he should have considered how you will feel first before bring his ex to leave with u guys. Tell him how u feel about the whole thing and think of what to do from his… Read more »
That’s a dangerous game played by your boo and allowed by you.The truth is if she still loves your boo, she can take this advantage otherwise destroy your relationship. Is she telling me that the man she separated from several years ago is the only one that can help her now they are both abroad?.your boo still love her
Too sad and too bad.if u know that u can stand own ur own for a while,ask ur boo that u have some one,a male friend need a help like that of his x.then ask him to let ur male friend to come in.if he will disagree,tel him to take her x out or else u should be the one.
he may have good intentions but it usually never ends well. your paranoia will drive him towards the ex who will feel like a victim but you will can’t help the feeling. it’s not a good arrangement atall. its inconsiderate of ur man to ask you of this.
I HAVE THE SAME ISSUE, I THOUGHT I WAS OK WITH IT WHEN HE ASKED ME, BUT THERE ARE JUST TOO MANY FACTORS INCLUDING THAT HE ONCE ASKED HER TO MARRY HIM. I DON’T WANT TO PUT HER OUT, BUT I CANNOT STAND THAT HE TALKS TO HER ABOUT OUR PROBLEMS THE ONLY ONE REALLY BEING THIS SITUATION AND I AM DRINKING WHICH HE IS NOW SAYING THAT’S THE PROBLEM, IT’S ME AND MY JEALOUSY. NOW I AM THE BAD GUY NO MATTER WHAT. I AM AFRAID THAT IF I SAY IT’S NOT OK FOR HER TO BE HERE, THAT… Read more »
No…no…no…no. Not a good idea. He might not have feelings for her, but she might for him. Besides by both of them being under the same roof, it might re- ignite the spark they once had. IMHO it’s just not a good idea.
If I will be honest with you, these sorts of circumstances always end up in a bad way so I will suggest that you let your guy know how you feel.
He wants to get two wives
Some people still keep in touch with their ex after finding someone else, and i don’t know why, it isn’t healthy for marriages and relationships, Keep letting him see reasons for her to leave, and keep an eye on your boyfriend, you never can tell, her staying there isn’t healthy for your relationship
This could be disastrous to your relationship sooner than you think
Find out when she’s leaving, and if it’s soon, you have nothing to worry about, but if she’s gonna stay longer, then i think the only thing you can do is watch her or rather still watch them till she leaves. But please remember, never you fight because of a man.
Your hands are tied, i don’t think there’s much you can do about it except you decide to leave instead, but you can tell him to either solve the problem by getting her somewhere else, send her packing or that you’ll leave the house. His decision may give you a hint about how he feels
It’s really sad 😢 your boyfriend shouldn’t have done something like this as it will rekindle his feelings for her 😔
La your man know how you feel that it really hurts and that you don’t want to lose him 👍🏻
Leave the house for them and go back to your country.
The way things are going he’ll fall in love with his ex again and break up with you
I think you should maybe trust him, I know some guys can be cunning sometimes but you have no choice as he owns the house. Time will tell, the sooner she leaves, the better.