He Said He Can’t Date Me Without S3x, But I am a Virgin, Should I Agree?

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I am a girl of 20yrs and I have been dating this guy for some months now.

I love him so much because he has been wonderful and very caring which made me to believe his love.

Before we started dating I made him understand that I was still a virgin and that I was not ready for s3x and he said no problem, then we started dating.

But to my greatest surprise I went to his house yesterday as usual. After my stay, I told him that I was about to leave that he should come see me off and he said okay.

But before I could stand up from the sofa he pounced on me and he tried to sleep with me but I didn’t allow him.

After so much struggle he eventually left me and then went on his knees and started begging profusely for forgiveness but I was feeling very angry and hurt and left his house angrily, even slamming the door behind me. I felt so shaken because I never expected this from him.

To my surprise he called me the next day and said that S3x is Love and that he can’t date me without S3x.

Please help me I have not experienced this before and I have not loved anybody the way I love him.

I was hoping to remain a virgin till marriage…I am confused please and I need ur advice.

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I love him so much because he is very caring and I don’t want to lose him. Should I give in to his demand or not? What should I do?

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Oloyede Israel
Oloyede Israel

Keep your virginity until you are married no matter how many people call it old fashion it is better to please God than please man the other way round has adverse and painful consequences.

mohammed Yusuf Hassan
mohammed Yusuf Hassan

Such people demand sex before marriage,, the same thing their daughters too will undergo and feel bad and even having heard attack as a result


Hope that wasn’t a rape attempt?
If you feel he’s trying to force you to have sex with him, please leave him and forget about your love for now 🥺
You told him at the beginning that you weren’t ready till marriage, and he accepted, why the sudden change? 😥
Please don’t do anything you wouldn’t want to just to please him
Stick to your decision