How I Slept With My Driver Just To Have Children For My Husband

This is the story of my life: I am not a loose woman. I am just a woman who loves her husband very much and didn’t want to lose him. I just did what I had to do to save my marriage even though I feel guilty sometimes. It was not easy but I slept with my driver so that I could give my husband a child, but instead, God gave me twins, a boy and a girl.

I was married to Philip for eight years. We had no child. The worst was that I never got pregnant even for a day. His mother became so impatient that she started breathing down my neck as she gave me no breathing space at all. She moved in to live with us and practically made my life unbearable – in my matrimonial home.

I cannot drink water and drop the cup because she must insult me. It got to a point that she stopped eating my food because, according to her, I should be feeding my children so that they would grow healthy and stronger and not her.

Monica, if you had children, you are supposed to be feeding them with all these food so that they would grow healthy and strong. I am getting old so I don’t need all these nonsense you call food. Take them away and give me grandchildren,” she would scream.

Even after she had left, I could still hear those insults in my head so I decided to take a bold step – I seduced and slept with our driver.

Before then, my mother-in-law also stopped talking to me, however, the only time she talks to me is when she wants to insult me and remind me of how less a woman I was. Philip and I love each other so much that he stood by me despite all his mother did or said to frustrate me to leave him.

We visited different specialists and they all certified us medically alright. I have visited churches, held vigils and even fasted for days, drank various concoctions of varied colours and combinations all in the name of getting pregnant so that my mother-in-law can stop humiliating me yet I couldn’t get pregnant. At a point, I stopped coming out of my bedroom because it was obvious that my mother-in-law had vowed to frustrate me out of her son’s home.

Most times, I just stayed in my bedroom and either cry, pray, think and then sleep off because I was scared of his mother confronting me. To make things worse, she sent away the house help because she said, “You don’t need any house help because there are no children to take care of. Take care of your house yourself and stop wasting my son’s hard earned money.”

It was just the three of us living at home, God, I was always so terrified even when I hear her voice from a distance. It is so agonizing to say this but my husband usually pleads with me to come out of the room and this makes him feel so sad especially those times I refuse because I don’t want to come face-to-face with his mother. When her troubles became too unbearable, Philip practically threw her out of the house just to make me feel safe and comfortable in my own home.

Okine the driver is a young man in his late 20’s. He is a graduate of Mechanical Engineering but because he could not get a good paying job, he opted to become a driver. I promised to get him a good job if he sleeps with me just once but I never disclosed the reason for this. However, Okine thought I just wanted to cheat on my husband with him. I planned it during my ovulation so that I could get pregnant, although it was not easy sleeping with another man. I knew I was betraying my husband but I saw it as a necessary action.

After a month, I discovered that I was pregnant. So, as promised I got a job for Okine in a friend’s company where he started earning a very good salary. When I told Philip that I was pregnant, he was so excited.

“Sweetheart, God has finally answered our prayers. I am pregnant,” I revealed.

When I was five months pregnant, he informed his mother and she immediately returned to the house. She pampered me like a baby and also took good care of me. I never wanted to do any scan but my mother-in-law insisted. When I finally did the scan, it showed that I was pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl.

My mother- in-law and husband were extremely happy while I felt much fulfilled. “God thank you for compensating me with a set of twins after eight years of barrenness,” I muttered. When the twins were born, the girl took ill for some time. It took a while before she fully recovered after several treatments and this got me worried.

Philip and I insisted that blood test be carried out on them to determine their blood group and genotype and then came the shocking revelation. The doctor informed us that although their blood groups are both A, however, their genotypes are AS for the girl and AA for the boy meanwhile Philip and I are both AA. I wanted the ground to open and swallow me up because I felt Philip would ask questions but to my surprise, he did not. He just said, “Sweetheart, lets go home. We have had quite a long day, you and my babies need to rest.”

Three months later, he held me closely and said: “Monica, don’t be scared. I don’t want to know who the father of the twins is. I know whatever you did, you did to save our marriage and I am very proud of you. I promise to always love you and my babies. I promise this will be a secret between us. I love you sweetheart. I know we will have our own children someday.”

I wept as he wiped my tears with his hands. I know what I did was wrong but at least my mother-in-law is extremely happy with me, that is all that matters. Although, everyone is happy but I feel guilty that I selfishly used an innocent man to achieve my aim. But before anybody judge me; just put yourself in my shoes and think for a moment, if it was you what you will do?

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Richard Chikooka
Richard Chikooka

It reached a vantage point where by you couldnt do otherwise but to grab a tip. No one is an angil on earth just feel guilt and forget.

Emmanuel A. Gabriel
Emmanuel A. Gabriel

Madam, thank God you felt the guilt of your wrong deed. This is a proof that your conscience is alive. The Bible says “if we repent, confess and forsake our sins, God is righteous and faithful to forgive us our sins “. The sin you committed is against His, your husband, your driver and even your very self. For total forgiveness, your confession will be to God first then to your husband and driver. This is called restitution for all who want to get to heaven at last. God has preserved your life to enable YOU do the restitution so as to be completely free. Pls, don’t listen to those telling YOU that YOU have not sinned. They are nothing yet saved but still doing same. May God give you the grace to do His will in Jesus name and then you will be free from all guilt.

George Iloegbulam Ndukwe
George Iloegbulam Ndukwe

Those who are clamouring for her to confess her sin, if I may ask, what has she just done. Making it an open secret is a subtle way of confessing what she did in secret and the book of St John 20:23 surely prescribes that if we forgive her then our God will automatically grant her pardon but if we don’t forgive her then she will remain unpardoned. By my personal belief, since she has shown this level of remorse over this evil and more so since her husband had unequivocally forgiven her, daughter you are hereby forgiven. Be vigilant of the whirls of the evil one.

ozioma
ozioma

she is a smart woman

ozioma
ozioma

she is a real woman

onuoha chinasa
onuoha chinasa

God is faithful and will not disappoint his own irrespective of our ugly situation. My dear, you have sinned against God and have not proved him as an all powerful God. So ask God for mercy and do not sin again.

Edmond Kadzamira
Edmond Kadzamira

To error is human

Evg.Alade A.S
Evg.Alade A.S

Madam,what u hv done is quite wrong,u ought to hv waited on d Lord bcos I know dt is how He would hv answered ur prayer since according to u d test carried out on u both proofed u were okay medically to hv birth,but see how d devil probably through ur mother-in law deceived u.Now,ur secret on more hidden to ur husband. Beg ur husband and seek d face of God.He is merciful.

coach Sheriff
coach Sheriff

I like that you are a daughter of a queen you are queen of ur castle u don’t need no hustle.
let the woman confess to the husband and to God for forgiveness, U see why most women prefer men whose mothers are dead cos men don’t have time ,I can adopt a child ,am not a traditional person.most mother inlaws are bad news.

prince prince
prince prince

forget about, African men are weaked, they even blame their fault on the wife, I’m a man, live your life and wait for what ever happens tomorrow, period. it’s not your fault, but fault of society that tied matrimonial happier to children!

Nafis
Nafis

Sister what ever you did is really a big committed against God and your husband. But please go back to God and ask Him for forgiveness. Also open up to your husband about everything and I know he will try as much to forgive you.

Asene
Asene

Move on as a family and seek help from the word of God…

Dolan
Dolan

It’s a difficult situation for anyone to pass through. Understanding the pains people go in such periods, I will say its OK. My pain is when a man does that most women will want take your life.

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