How I Slept With My Driver Just To Have Children For My Husband

This is the story of my life: I am not a loose woman. I am just a woman who loves her husband very much and didn’t want to lose him. I just did what I had to do to save my marriage even though I feel guilty sometimes. It was not easy but I slept with my driver so that I could give my husband a child, but instead, God gave me twins, a boy and a girl.

I was married to Philip for eight years. We had no child. The worst was that I never got pregnant even for a day. His mother became so impatient that she started breathing down my neck as she gave me no breathing space at all. She moved in to live with us and practically made my life unbearable – in my matrimonial home.

I cannot drink water and drop the cup because she must insult me. It got to a point that she stopped eating my food because, according to her, I should be feeding my children so that they would grow healthy and stronger and not her.

Monica, if you had children, you are supposed to be feeding them with all these food so that they would grow healthy and strong. I am getting old so I don’t need all these nonsense you call food. Take them away and give me grandchildren,” she would scream.

Even after she had left, I could still hear those insults in my head so I decided to take a bold step – I seduced and slept with our driver.

Before then, my mother-in-law also stopped talking to me, however, the only time she talks to me is when she wants to insult me and remind me of how less a woman I was. Philip and I love each other so much that he stood by me despite all his mother did or said to frustrate me to leave him.

We visited different specialists and they all certified us medically alright. I have visited churches, held vigils and even fasted for days, drank various concoctions of varied colours and combinations all in the name of getting pregnant so that my mother-in-law can stop humiliating me yet I couldn’t get pregnant. At a point, I stopped coming out of my bedroom because it was obvious that my mother-in-law had vowed to frustrate me out of her son’s home.

Most times, I just stayed in my bedroom and either cry, pray, think and then sleep off because I was scared of his mother confronting me. To make things worse, she sent away the house help because she said, “You don’t need any house help because there are no children to take care of. Take care of your house yourself and stop wasting my son’s hard earned money.”

It was just the three of us living at home, God, I was always so terrified even when I hear her voice from a distance. It is so agonizing to say this but my husband usually pleads with me to come out of the room and this makes him feel so sad especially those times I refuse because I don’t want to come face-to-face with his mother. When her troubles became too unbearable, Philip practically threw her out of the house just to make me feel safe and comfortable in my own home.

Okine the driver is a young man in his late 20’s. He is a graduate of Mechanical Engineering but because he could not get a good paying job, he opted to become a driver. I promised to get him a good job if he sleeps with me just once but I never disclosed the reason for this. However, Okine thought I just wanted to cheat on my husband with him. I planned it during my ovulation so that I could get pregnant, although it was not easy sleeping with another man. I knew I was betraying my husband but I saw it as a necessary action.

After a month, I discovered that I was pregnant. So, as promised I got a job for Okine in a friend’s company where he started earning a very good salary. When I told Philip that I was pregnant, he was so excited.

“Sweetheart, God has finally answered our prayers. I am pregnant,” I revealed.

When I was five months pregnant, he informed his mother and she immediately returned to the house. She pampered me like a baby and also took good care of me. I never wanted to do any scan but my mother-in-law insisted. When I finally did the scan, it showed that I was pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl.

My mother- in-law and husband were extremely happy while I felt much fulfilled. “God thank you for compensating me with a set of twins after eight years of barrenness,” I muttered. When the twins were born, the girl took ill for some time. It took a while before she fully recovered after several treatments and this got me worried.

Philip and I insisted that blood test be carried out on them to determine their blood group and genotype and then came the shocking revelation. The doctor informed us that although their blood groups are both A, however, their genotypes are AS for the girl and AA for the boy meanwhile Philip and I are both AA. I wanted the ground to open and swallow me up because I felt Philip would ask questions but to my surprise, he did not. He just said, “Sweetheart, lets go home. We have had quite a long day, you and my babies need to rest.”

Three months later, he held me closely and said: “Monica, don’t be scared. I don’t want to know who the father of the twins is. I know whatever you did, you did to save our marriage and I am very proud of you. I promise to always love you and my babies. I promise this will be a secret between us. I love you sweetheart. I know we will have our own children someday.”

I wept as he wiped my tears with his hands. I know what I did was wrong but at least my mother-in-law is extremely happy with me, that is all that matters. Although, everyone is happy but I feel guilty that I selfishly used an innocent man to achieve my aim. But before anybody judge me; just put yourself in my shoes and think for a moment, if it was you what you will do?

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Gbolahan
Gbolahan

u did so wrong, it’s forbidden in all ways, however, confess to d man and let him decides, more so d future of d children is very important, no child loves to n seen or call bastatd

Elijah
Elijah

Is ur driver aware that he has children with you? if yes, then am afraid one day he might raise issues. on the other side, since u are not comfortable with the act, open up to ur husband and u people should keep it secret and bring up ur children together. Go back to God sincerely, and u both will enjoy the best of life.

Edwin Livingstone
Edwin Livingstone

Gaining the world and loose your soul.Pray that no calamity will befall your marriage now or in future because sin is sin no matter.You may think it is blessing now but! May God bless and forgive you as you tell your husband the whole truth.

Kingsley chukwuezue
Kingsley chukwuezue

infarct is bad, real bad news to any husband like me,but my heart must welcome the kids, why because child is child but training is what matter most,people do adopt and still ok with that, so is more easy this way than adopt pls sir love them all even your wife, she is wise as for me.

Abraham Grace
Abraham Grace

The fact remains that ur husband is still childless. U have not given him any child instead u gave ur driver kids. U disgraced God and ur husband. So pray for forgiveness and return those kids to the owner if u still want to be with ur husband because those kids will always remind him of ur infidelity. God bless u

Livinus
Livinus

God judges motives and u did not do because u want but to save d reproach in ur family confesse God not man for God knows ur mind nobody who did not pay ur dowry has any right to claim ur children be wise for u are a good women

Charles
Charles

Who are we to judge? always thank God for your husband and children..

cy
cy

God have mercy for u, what u has done is sin may God forgive u. In the other way u save ur husband from shame

Stella o
Stella o

since ur husband have known about it and he has received u people u have ur boldness ask God for forgiveness is over, take good care of those gift and God will bless them

Steve
Steve

The predicament in which u found yourself in is the second worst problem in marriage. The first is losing ur partner. I have experienced the but not the second. This story should be a lesson to mother in-laws who play God. What u did is what u had to do. Human endurance has a breaking point. Having broken the jinx what should bother the couple now is how resolve your husband’s sexual problem to prevent u from falling back into cheating. At least u now know that u are a complete woman but your husband needs to work on himself and his mother’s mouth.

Anonymous
Anonymous

It is a pathetic experience but whatever is wrong remain wrong. The woman should not have done that but wait on the Lord Almighty. She has to pray for forgiveness of sin for her to have peace of mind. Life is full of wars and bitterness.

Hat
Hat

Thou shalt not commit adultery

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