I am 23 years old and I have been in a relationship with a 36 years old man since last year March. I have no feelings for him and I lately realised he really does care for me. This man is not formally educated and he is not very financially buoyant.

August last year I met and started dating a new man aged 32 years old who is not educated but owns a house. It was not long before I discovered that he is in a member of a dangerous cult gang which explains his habit of drinking and smoking and I wont like such a man to be the father of my children. I don’t want to quit the relationship because I am afraid he will harm me.

I will be leaving for my national service by November and I don’t know if I should keep calm and use that as an escape route please advice me on the best way to go about leaving this man for good.

What do You Think about This?