I Just Found Out My New Girlfriend is Still Living With Her Former Boyfriend

I am 26 and I met a 21 yr old girl during the lecturers strike when schools were closed for some months.

We both fell in love and things went on smoothly. We had a lot of fun and I was so happy because she was all I ever wanted in a girl.

Some few months later, the strike was called off and we both went back to our different schools. But she started behaving so unusual after she had gone back to school.

After much pressure from me, she opened up and I was shocked to my marrow when she told me that she was dating a guy in school and even living with him in his house, that they had been dating for three years, long before she met me.

But she claims she doesn’t have feelings for him anymore and that she will soon break up with him and in her mind she already sees him as her ex. She said that the only reason why she has not broken up with him is because she has no where to stay if she has to pack out his house.

Now things are getting complicated as the days pass by. She and her so called Ex are fighting everyday but I keep having this strong feeling and fear that they will settle someday and get alone together once more.

I am deeply in love with her and don’t really know what to do at this stage. She has been begging that I should bear with her and that she’s going to fix it. She hides to talk to me and I am not comfortable with that.

I am confused and don’t know if I should just quit the relationship!

If u were to be in my shoe, what would you do? Please Be honest and sincere.