I Wish that My Sister’s Fiance Would Marry Me Instead of Her

I am thirty-two years of age, a female single but working. I was in a relationship for five good years with a guy who let me down after all those years and got married to another woman who was younger than me.

Well I have gotten over the pains because it happened about two years ago. Since then I have not been in any relationship but recently I have been thinking of moving on with my life and I really desire to meet a good and responsible man who will marry me so that I can have a normal family.

Last year when I was on official leave I took the opportunity to visit my family and spent a few days there. During the visit, my younger sister introduced her fiance to me for the first time. My younger sister is twenty-five and her guy is about my age and looked very responsible and charming. My folks seem to like him and he is nice and respectful too.

Within a short time I found myself developing feelings for this guy and sometimes even wondering what he is doing with my younger sister who is the baby of the house. We both become quite close when we exchanged our numbers and become friends on facebook.

I chat with this guy as if he is my husband to be, but within me I know he really loves my younger sister.

Please I need your advise because everything in my spirit tells me he is the right guy for me but he is my sisters fiance. I have been keeping my emotions inside me for the past one year now and I can no longer pretend. Is it wise if I should approach him and tell him my feelings despite how my sister will take it or what can I do to remove all thoughts of him from my mind?