I Wish that My Sister’s Fiance Would Marry Me Instead of Her
I am thirty-two years of age, a female single but working. I was in a relationship for five good years with a guy who let me down after all those years and got married to another woman who was younger than me.
Well I have gotten over the pains because it happened about two years ago. Since then I have not been in any relationship but recently I have been thinking of moving on with my life and I really desire to meet a good and responsible man who will marry me so that I can have a normal family.
Last year when I was on official leave I took the opportunity to visit my family and spent a few days there. During the visit, my younger sister introduced her fiance to me for the first time. My younger sister is twenty-five and her guy is about my age and looked very responsible and charming. My folks seem to like him and he is nice and respectful too.
Within a short time I found myself developing feelings for this guy and sometimes even wondering what he is doing with my younger sister who is the baby of the house. We both become quite close when we exchanged our numbers and become friends on facebook.
I chat with this guy as if he is my husband to be, but within me I know he really loves my younger sister.
Please I need your advise because everything in my spirit tells me he is the right guy for me but he is my sisters fiance. I have been keeping my emotions inside me for the past one year now and I can no longer pretend. Is it wise if I should approach him and tell him my feelings despite how my sister will take it or what can I do to remove all thoughts of him from my mind?
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Anyway i don’r know the religion u belong to,but if it’s d plan of God for you to meet your husband via ur sister,den let it be so but if otherwise,i beseech u wait for ur time,wat is urs wil never elude u,dnt be in haste cos of ur age,besides culturally and biblically it’s wrong for a lady to woo a guy no mater d feelings attached,wait for him to speak his mind. Thanks and God bless
Hey! kindly remove that thought from ur mind, it is devilish. First of all, reduce ur charting time with him. Pray for forgiveness and ask God to make you meet ur own man. God’s time is the best
Fast and pray.
Better mind ur own business. Leave ur sister to enjoy her fiance. Go and look for yours. Whether u like him or not, nobody cares, he is with ur sister, and u should let them be.
Plz, wait for the God’s time and you will never be disappointed.
Pray for your own
keep off, limit or just stop chatting with him.why should u n who gave u the permition to trespass to that extend.the fact that your sis is younger doesnt mean that shes stupid.the urge u feel is the same she felt n this is y she got him.find your own n begin to respect him n yr sis.
Is not fair to take your sister fiance , pray for your own husband stop chatting with him you will hurt your sister very bad , if you do love her stay away from her husband
Like is some how nemesis,,, what u did u would found another that will do the same with u to u as well. Thus don’t event withdraw ur turn is coming
Don’t approach him
It’s wrong from all aspects, then about getting him off your mind, you have to find someone else to love and with that you’ll surely forget about him sooner or later.
Remember there are many fishes in the river 👍