He Lost His Job after Helping me, Now others Want to Marry Me. Should I Leave Him?

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sadcoupI am 26 years old, my partner is 30 and We have been in a long and loving relationship for the past 10 years. We started as close friends during our teenage years and eventually we fell in love. Today we are still together: not yet married but still very much in love.

We are both university graduates now. While we were in school, he also worked and schooled at the same time and he trained me all through my schooling with some of his salary. He paid for my books, fees, accommodation everything.

We were about geting married lately when he started having some problems with his job. Unfortunately, he eventually lost the job and is now starting all over again with no money and no job. Since that time I have been suporting him and stayed by his side trying to help him to get back on track.

The problem now is that I am having other suitors asking for my hand in marriage and I am confused. Sometime I feel tired to continue waiting for him to get back on his feet so that we can get married. Sometimes I find myself wondering if I should consider the other suitors. But we still love each other and promised to stand by each other so I am rally very confused and don’t know if I should keep waiting for him or let go.



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Emmanuel
Emmanuel

There shouldn’t be any controversy/confusion whatsoever.He waz by ur side wen tinz were rough 4 u & u are what he nids 2 get bak 2 his feet.wen couples build a fountain 2geda,d love existing would be extraordinary.i promise u,u wont regret it.

Mara
Mara

u dont v 2 b confused dear. key in2 d love u guys shared wen tins were going on 5n. this may be ur moment of trials but dont fall a victim. u v gotten ur soulmate… he s right there by ur syd..

Rounie
Rounie

My dear …der is nothing like considering De I the suitor.in real live no consideration. he was beside u wen u needed him n does everything for u.now is time to prove to him that u love n care for him..if u ignore him n marry the other guy…..u ll still come back to him n u ll east or time..becos u ll not be happy n also feel free wen u marry De other guy.

peace bin kapwepwe bless
peace bin kapwepwe bless

My dear luv is a bland,dont be in luv coz of money bt b coz u luv him de way he is, with money u cn found a fake luv nt a True luv… And a true luv cmin in side nt out side and u need 2remember hw many nothing he was supporting when you was down, he was doing 4u mo thinks lk de way u’r tokn ur self lk de way u said… So need 2support him also de way he is dat z my advice 2u and show him a true luv lk b4 coz is… Read more »

Seun
Seun

Remain by his side okay,he was there for u,besides u are just 26,so wait for him,things will get better. Goodluck.

osmond
osmond

no live d guy becos dis z modern age no body in dis menon wil be poor we hav many work u wil do and get big money.also pray for him.

Towera Mwanamanga
Towera Mwanamanga

you do know that in marriage they say for better for worse right?so if you failing now what about then?

Zinhle
Zinhle

I’m in a similar situation but with mine there is no guarantee that he will bounce back he is a foreigner and getting a job in a foreign country for him is close to zero should I leave him? I feel bad every time I try doing it he always made sure I had it all when he had and his only dream is to marry me but he has nothing what should I do plz help me

Anonymous
Anonymous

u don’t have to let him down..this is the time he needs you most,beside he was with you when you needed him.

sunday
sunday

that’s how life is. some times life will be hard and when life is hard it need prayers and pls never give up .and when life is easy it also need prayer to make it stand

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