I am in Love with a Guy Who Doesn’t Love me as Much as my Boyfriend Who I don’t Love anymore

confusedI have been in a relationship for the past 2 years and 6 months with this guy that really loves me so much. Though I once loved him very much too, but as time went on the feelings that I had for him slowly disappeared and instead we started having problems and arguing over little things.

During this period of challenge in our relationship, I met another guy whom I loved instantly. I don’t really know what came over me because I just fell so much in love with him and he claimed he loved me too. Eventually I started dating this new guy but did not break up with the first guy because I don’t want to hurt him because he loves me so much.

But just two months into the new relationship, I had a big quarrel with the new guy because I became suspicious of him since he has so many female friends which I was not comfortable with because I am the jealous type and some of these girls that flock around him sometimes even flirt with him and he doesn’t brush them off or even complain. If anything, he seems to enjoy their company and this got me all the more jealous.

Not longer after, I broke up with this new guy and that is when my problem started because ever since then I keep wishing that I was still together with him because I just cant help my feelings of being so in love with him. I am even ready to overlook his attitude and his many girl friends just so that I can be with him. I am even tempted to call him and apologize to him even though he is the one that wronged me.

Now I am so confused and I don’t know if I should just remain with the first guy who loves me big time but whom I don’t love so much, or should I apologize and beg this second guy to take me back because he is the one that I really love even though he doesn’t treat me as well as the first guy.

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mercy
mercy

Stick to the one u loved. Maybe wit prayers he will change one day, and if he didn’t changed, take it as ur cross since dats what u want. If u marry d other person, whom u don’t love, u can’t bring out d best of u. U will be living in pains, u will not be happy, his word piss u up all d time. All d same pray n follow ur mind. Tnx

Nelson
Nelson

Dear sis, dont panic over this small issue. There are many answers to your question and of course many solutions to your problem.

1. Let go of this second guy and live a positive life. You will soon get what you greatly desire. Be the one you want to have. Behave in a way that you want in the other guy and truly, you will love him.

2. Learn to love the one who loves you dearly. He has a heart for you and he cares about you. Accept him the way he is and move on with life and all shall be well. You’ll seeing begin enjoying him as your dear feanceé. Its easy. Otherwise he shall forever complain in life and that shall make you a cursed girl for ever. You better tell him its over if you really dont want him. Thats absurd.

3. Seek heavenly intervention so that you should know whether you are making a wrong or right choice.

ericoteng
ericoteng

For every situation remember our Lord is not for sake u sometime u will be in a situation that u never think off please get patients for it don’t let your problem bigger than God but tell ur problem I have a great God who never abandon me in every evil things devil is a lyre bless u

Anonymous
Anonymous

Please my dear think very well not all that glitter is gold stick to the one that love and try your best to understand him dnt make the mistake of looking for the wrong things

Kunle
Kunle

Please my dear think very well not all that glitter is gold stick to the one that love and try your best to understand him dnt make the mistake of looking for the wrong things

Towera Mwanamanga
Towera Mwanamanga

grow up and don’t act like a #*#*

Godwin
Godwin

My advice to u is dat u hold onto d one dat loves you because for a certain he wouldn’t toil with ur feelings but d challenge there for u is dat u try and find a way of loving him by firstly liking what he likes and being friendly with his company by not being irritated by his presence.
In summary……..hold onto d person dat loves u because there is no way u find a guy dat loves u in return in d same measure dat u love him!!!

Okechukwu
Okechukwu

Follow the man u knw that love’s u and stop chasing a shadow. Let him knw what turns u on and what does’nt.etc..

F.J.E the Buddha.
F.J.E the Buddha.

You have to bring out a time to meet that your guy who loves you so much, to see if you can stick yourself with the love he has for you, because being in love with a guy that doesn’t love you will never bring you happiness. I love is good, but it can only be good when you are in love with the right person.

Omali yusufu
Omali yusufu

You nyc girl ndiwe okongola moti ukupangisa mtima wanga kuwawa

Sandra
Sandra

Just trust in your relationship never doubt yourselves

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