My Friend Told Me that My Girlfriend Agreed to Sleep With Him for Money
When I started dating this girl she was very decent and I was the one that disvirgined her. She is twenty-five and I am twenty-nine. Six months after we started dating I started hearing things about this girl’s character which was unbecoming. I learnt that when I am not around she flirts around with different guys and I even saw one of her suspicious chat conversations with a guy on facebook in her phone. I confronted her with all this and she denied it flatly. Well I did not have proof so I let it be and warned her to be careful.
The problem I have is that I dont know if I can trust this girl because I have observed that she is a liar. I told her to accompany me to one of my friends place where we spent a long time together in his room. At a point this friend of mine suddenly burst into the room and told me that we should both molest my girl in bed. I objected strongly and reminded him that she was my girl and not a common prostitute. He took me outside and begged me to forgive him but I should know that the girl was loosed and deserved to be treated like a prostitute.
We nearly had a fight but I just ignored him and told my girl that we should leave. I escorted her to her house and went back to mine.
Imagine my surprise when around 11:00Pm in the night I heard someone at our gate. When I checked it was my girl and she was in tears. I asked her what was happening and she told me that my friend had forced himself on her. She said he came to her house and deceived her that I asked him to come and get her and bring her to me.
She said he took her to a lonely place and forcefully slept with her. When I confronted my friend about this the next morning, he only laughed and told me that he simply enticed the girl with money that’s why she followed him, and that when he refused to give her the money after sleeping with her, she got mad and threatened to blackmail him.
Please I need your help as to what to believe now. When I recall everything I hear about this girl and my friends explanation I find it difficult to believe my girls story. Am I being a fool in love and blind as well not to see what this girl is doing behind my back. What if she has been honest with me and was telling the truth. Who should I believe now, my friend or my girlfriend. I still have feelings for this girl and I dont want to loose her, but I don’t want to be ridiculed as well by people.
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Just Lv her god will give u the original 4u
Leave her and ur friend and that ur friend is not a good one. Knowing fully well that she is ur girl y would he sleep with her. Just leave her and feel the pain for days and move on.
U might decide to give her another chance and work things out. But as for ur friend, he is a bad guy after he made a req earlier and u did not oblige him, what’s d need of going back to entice d girl wit money if he is actually saying d truth. Bro atimes d way we see things is not always like that except we try again and get convinced.
That girl is useless .Leave her and move on with your life.
don’t get fooled, leave her people who break relationships by doing such stupidity you should not hang on to
“Istill have a fillings for this girl and i don’t want to lose her” ha ha ha! My friend,follow your heart.
leave her and your friend those tw are not friends…move on with your life.
If u leave am wetin go happen? Shey u go die? Better grow up before it is too late bcus this life is 2 short to be wasted on stupid frnds ok Goodluck!!
Some guys are fooled by love, your friend has already told you that the girl is loosed. If not, he wont have the upportunity to enticed her with money. So freestyle both your girl and your male friend. They are not friends you should even move closer to, or else you will regret it.
I think many things have been said, of course one doesn’t have to be a genius to know that both the girl and the boy whom you say is ur friend d are bad and are not worth ur trust. The best thing is to forget about that relationship and move on with ur life. Don’t wait for other scandals to happen it will be too late. There are so many girls who can be trusted and are very pretty waiting for better men. Note that good men are for good women and the opposite is true.
the earlier u let her go the better for u because this is a denger light telling u that the worst is coming
‘Se won bi s’orin mon ẹja ni’ is it a must you remain in a relationship after seeing the red flag, well you alone can decide your next course of action
May be she was in short of money and u are not bother to spend much on her