My Girlfriend is No Longer Interested in Love Making after Two Years of Dating

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I am desperately in need of advice! I am a 23 year old guy and I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for nearly two years now. I met her in my homeland, while she travelled there and decided I would move with her back to her country after her stay. By then we had been together for nearly a year. In the beginning of our relationship love making was amazing, even once I had moved here to her country it was still amazing and frequent, maybe 3 to 4+ times a week.

When i first came to her country, I needed to stay with her but she wanted me to eventually find my own place, which i reluctantly did. You see because at first i wanted us to live together, I had left my home country to be with her but now I have been living in a flat with students since.

My problem now is that my girlfriend never wants to make love to me anymore, she likes to cuddle and kiss but I don’t necessarily like that anymore perhaps due to our lack of the real thing which now happens maybe only once a month and normally I have to argue for it now with her.

So through our lack of it I have grown bitter and resentful and am constantly aggressive because I’m hurting. I feel rejected, isolated, ugly and worthless. On top of that my girlfriend barely makes any time for me anymore, I feel as if it is not even important for her anymore, that i am not important to her anymore.



The other day she had returned from a holiday with friends and I wanted to have a romantic dinner with her but she wanted to go watch the soccer world cup and told me that I am holding her back from enjoying soccer. When i protested against the idea we ended up still having the dinner but you see the resentment still sits deep inside me because I had to initially argue with her for the pleasure of her company.

I feel that I am too young and have sacrificed too much to feel like this, to feel that I’m treated as if i mean nothing. I enjoy love making, my drive is high, i could do it everyday without a doubt, but I’ve made changes in order to accommodate my girlfriend. But when she never wants to be intimate anymore i don’t know what to do. I end up watching indecent movies.


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Everything seems fine as well, I mean she is happy and spends a lot of time with friends or family, works, studies etc but when it comes to me or intimacy, it just seems so difficult for her. So i don’t know what to do anymore. I’m growing hateful and falling out of love with her. Some advice would help a lot.

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Fowoyo Stephen
Fowoyo Stephen

found out her reason, and please find how to reduce your high feelings for sex, trust me, something can be medicaly done about it.

justice tepani
justice tepani

Don’t force matters cos one day she will leave u and to say the truth she don’t lyk u.

Ottis dot com
Ottis dot com

u are sex freek my guy! d trutg remains dat shes tired of yr frequent sex…she thinks u are going finish her & dump her 2 settle down wth someone else.she cant jst bear it any more having sex wth her almost evry day when she’s nt married to u,what if u eventualy marry her,u will kill her wth sex.

Joe
Joe

It is wrong in the first place to have sex with the person u are not married to. I assumed she is tired of u and ur incessant sex. Try and control urself.

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Christopher

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Tee
Tee

At your age you should be building your career and planning towards the future. Moving in with her in the first place has reduced your worth to her.
Way forward: Find your purpose in life and be focused towards achieving it. Give her a break . If she’s meant for u, she will still be yours.

Dally
Dally

2 years dating. Surely no girl wants to enter Guinness Book of Records & become popular for dating. You may still attract any woman at any age & get married. The reverse is true for her & she’s not getting younger. Secondly squatting with her means you do not seam to have even created a base that could culminate to getting a successful wedding proposal from her. Thus over time, you’ve successfully proven to be like the wind – one never knows where it’s coming from & where it’s heading to. Finally what’s your income base because? no woman marries… Read more »

mohammed Yusuf Hassan
mohammed Yusuf Hassan

He/she decided to go on hid/her

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