My Girlfriend Who I Deflowered Has Cheated on Me and Slept With Four Different Guys
I am in my mid twenties and in my final year in the university. As a freshman I met a girl through my sister and since then we have been dating. I am older than her with 4 years.
Although I was the one who disvirgined her, she has so far cheated with four different guys.
Initially she lied about her affairs and claimed that she only slept with one guy and pleaded for forgiveness I did forgive her only for me to find out that she actually slept with the other three guys.
I made her confess with the pretense that I wanted everything to be in the past. During a strike action by our university’s lecturers, she left campus to spend the weekend with one of the guys, who happens to be my old friend and resides in the same house with her.
He was also a friend to her older brother. She has since pleaded with me to forgive her and although I cannot seem to forget especially anytime I set my eyes on her. I really feel betrayed because this is a girl I never for once thought of cheating on.
Since I found out about her escapades she has been doing everything to please and pacify me; she even refused marrying a man her parents wanted her to marry because of me. The problem is that I can’t seem to forget all that has happened because I do not trust her any more.
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Despite the fact that I still love her, I cannot bear all she did to hurt me and it is slowly killing the love I have for her. Please what is the wisest thing to do at this point?
just let go of her,cos if you marry her she will keep on cheating on you…moreover you achieve her alot by having a sex with her.dude never have a feelings for a bitch who have eye for many guys…
Forgiveness is associated with pain. Trying to understand the cause of the problem, begin by looking at the mirror rather than the window..thoroughly check your wrong doing before your spouse…treat the situation with love
CV BN
U hav some parts to blame 4 her actions.From ur story u were d one dat disflowered her.u startd ur relationship with pre marital relation which send wrong message into her heart.wat l wil say is dat it’s up to u to settle with her. u can pray 4 her,use the bible to help her and stop pre marital relationship
my dear my question is hav u prepare to marry if no 4get about her u hav a long way to go beautiful ones are nt born dnt hav psycholocal disorder becos of woman they are dangerous and weaker vessel .she is ur girl when she was with u bt immediately she left u never can tell
For give her cos she’s already apologize u, ND she’s ur girlfriend.
She seems to love staying with you but loves sex with many watchout try to get her change before she is in the most painfull thing is doing nusty in your house & that will cost you to wrong dids solve quickly, the other thing to your side is learn to FORGET things because if you don’t then you’ll not stay with any woman, either with struggles & hurts all your marriage life. Overall seek God is the all solutions.
Delete her off your mind and start an affair with anoda girl.
That means she doesn’t love you 😥
You should end the relationship, cause it’s bound to get worse if you don’t 🥺
She may likely do same after marrying her.
Hmmm