My Husband-to-Be is Very Harsh, Rude and Arrogant, How Can I Change Him?
My boy friend is 31 and I’m 23 years old. We have been in a relationship for 4 years now.We both care for each other because we have known each other for 4 years and I can say that we love each other. We are planning to get married soon but my problem is that my fiance is very harsh at times and also rude and arrogant.
I have tried to broach this matter of his arrogance with him severally in the past but his attitude discouraged me because he was not ready to change this attitude of his.
There was a time between the years of our relationship when I actually broke up with him. But he changed his attitude and I forgave him. But now he is back to his old character and I dont know what to do. I love him as much as he loves me.
How can I change him from being so rude and arrogant because anytime I confront him with this character of his we quarrel but he always apologises even if I am wrong. Please help me.
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you can’t change him if you want just break off the engagement or persevere there is no guarantee about his changing
I totally agree with Maryjane Obianuju Ajika
Am sorry but you can’t change him.if he really wanted to change that 4 years would have being enough for him.you can’t change a person that doesn’t want to change.
I don’t think you can, you’ll have to end the marriage
Showing concerns and double ur love to him
Be opposite of him
Just as long as he ain’t violent 🥺
You can still try to change him though, change is constant, he may change, or may not change 😟
If he still doesn’t stop this attitude of his, and you feel it ain’t healthy for you, then you have to get a divorce 🥺 before it gets nasty.
Talk to him