My Husband-to-Be is Very Harsh, Rude and Arrogant, How Can I Change Him?

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My boy friend is 31 and I’m 23 years old. We have been in a relationship for 4 years now.We both care for each other because we have known each other for 4 years and I can say that we love each other. We are planning to get married soon but my problem is that my fiance is very harsh at times and also rude and arrogant.

I have tried to broach this matter of his arrogance with him severally in the past but his attitude discouraged me because he was not ready to change this attitude of his.

There was a time between the years of our relationship when I actually broke up with him. But he changed his attitude and I forgave him. But now he is back to his old character and I dont know what to do. I love him as much as he loves me.

How can I change him from being so rude and arrogant because anytime I confront him with this character of his we quarrel but he always apologises even if I am wrong. Please help me.



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Towera Mwanamanga
Towera Mwanamanga

you can’t change him if you want just break off the engagement or persevere there is no guarantee about his changing

Tenderlyn
Tenderlyn

I totally agree with Maryjane Obianuju Ajika

Sarah Osazee
Sarah Osazee

Am sorry but you can’t change him.if he really wanted to change that 4 years would have being enough for him.you can’t change a person that doesn’t want to change.

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