No Matter How Hard I Try, I Just Can’t Love My Wife
I’m a married man of 27 with two kids who my wife bore before we got officially married.
Initially we were just living together as an unmarried couple but with the coming of kids, especially the second one, I was compelled by her family to get married to her officially which I eventually did, so that is how we got married.
My wife is so nice to me, she has good qualities, very hard working and respects me a lot but no matter how hard I try I just cant love her as much as I’m supposed to.
I cheat on my wife a lot because of my poor love for her. She is even aware of my cheating ways and even attacked one of my girlfriends some day ago upon tracing us to a bar.
I’m more lively and sexually active with my ex-girlfriend than with my wife and the worst of it is that I can’t get my ex girlfriend out of my mind; even my wife knows this and we have had several arguments over the matter.
I loved my ex while we were dating and still love her very much now. We still communicate and I just cant help thinking about her but most times I also feel guilty that I do not have the same attraction to my wife, the mother of my kids. I’m just confused and I truly don’t know what to do.
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Separate urslf
You don’t love your wife then, it’s simple as that And it seems you were given no other choice but to marry her There are two things I think you can do to solve this You either call it quits with your ex for good, and try making yourself love your wife the way you ought to .i.e. making you fall in love with her, you can try going on a date, trying new exciting ways to improve your sex life or something to spark your love life ❤️ or, you can decide to divorce your wife while taking care… Read more »
This is terrible