She Said that She will Leave me if I don’t Sleep With Her or Marry Her
I met a lady about 6 months ago, she is 24 years old and in her 2nd year in the University. After two months of dating she insisted that we get married right away. I encouraged and adviced her to focus on her education first and promised never to leave her but she did not want to see reason with me.
I love her so much to the extent that anything she asks for I give to her. Although she is not too demanding it’s just that she keeps insisting on love making and marriage. I always try to let her understand why it is important for her to focus on her education first but she won’t listen to me. I love this girl very much and don’t want to lose her for any reason.
Before we started I told her no love making until marriage due to my christian belief and I am the type that finds it difficult to break my important words. On weekends she normally comes to my place and most of the time she insists that we make love. But because of my beliefs I always try to resist her and so far we have never done it.
But she came to me yesterday night and said that she was giving me two options to choose from. She said that I must accept one of the two options or else I should be prepared to lose her forever. These options are either I make Love to her or I give her a date for our wedding ceremony. Now I am so confused because I don’t want to lose her forever but at the same time I don’t want to go against my beliefs hence I need advice on what to do.
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pls if you are old enough for marriage abeg marry her
Sleep with her & seek for forgiveness from God
Follow ur principle
the truth is that she’s afraid u may be impotent…do it & prove to her that u are a man.
Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers. She does not care about your believe, nor see the reasons why she must continue with her education, but her selfish interest, she is pressing you with. U have allowed her to give u such yoke round your neck which is very heavy for you emotionally, fornication is not only doing the practical part of it,but the conception from the point interactions.Now u have Matthew 11: 29 to go with, so as to break her own yoke. My dear stay away from her, for marriage is not a must between two of you. Think… Read more »
Well it difficult bro, as a believer, you can stake to your principle if that is what they do in your church, more so you are the one that know the girl, you know most of things about her. If you think she’s a serious type not the type that sleep around my bro. prove to her that you are a man, who knows may she’s been hearing different kind things about you, so my brother prove her wrong about the rumors they must have been telling her outside. you know ladies heart is very fragile.
If u love her so much, then, go with ur people and pay her bride price to her people and she automatically become ur wife. Weddin and other ceremony can come latter may after school. U can then, make love 2 her thereafter it is no sin against God. Is just a woman’s bride price that makes her ur wife not the ceremony. Ok? So give her a date now!
If one of this would not happen what is the essence of ur Flirting
Hmmm
Do as she say