My GF is From a Large Family and I am Afraid of the Financial Burden Because they Are Poor

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I am 29 years of age dating a girl of 26 years. We have been dating for about a year now and I love her very much. Although it is not more than a year since we started going out, it is as if we have known ourselves forever. She is very beautiful and intelligent though she has no post secondary school education.

I do not have a problem with that since I intend to marry her and help her further her education .

The issue that I am not comfortable with her is her large family and polygamous background coupled with the fact that there is pressure on her to get married to a wealthy man owing to her family’s financial status which is poor. Her father has 4 wives and 27 Children. She is the first girl of her mother and has 8 younger ones below her.

Although I am not doing badly financially since I have a good paying job, I still would not want to start a family and end up being stagnated by financial burdens from my wife’s family members. Please I need advice on how to handle this.

Should I quit the relationship and search for a more affluent lady or Should I brace myself up for future financial obligations to her large family.

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mohammed Yusuf Hassan
mohammed Yusuf Hassan

Then so what,,?


You love her?
Then brace up for the financial obligations
If you don’t love her, then you can search for an affluent lady as you suggested
But remember, you are getting married to her, not her family 🤗